Friday, October 21, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 10

Day 10: All together, now!

Day 10 is focused on utilizing all the tools that you've learned throughout the experiment.

Start your day off with a good, long hug and a kiss. 

Get back to being modest.  Shut the bathroom door, clip your toenails in private, being back some of that mystery you had in the beginning of your relationship.

Focus on touching each other as much as possible.  Help him get his stuff ready for work.  A foot massage while you catch up on the newest Jersey Shore.  Another hug and kiss, possibly!

Don't go all day without thinking about each other.  Send a quick email or text, or maybe a quick phone call to just say hello, or maybe share how your day is going.  Maybe make a few suggestions as to what that night might bring!

When you get back together in the evening, get right back into touching and feeling.  Help each other prepare or clean up dinner.  Sit next to each other on the couch while watching TV.  Maybe a quick neck or foot massage!

Maybe get out of the house for date night!  Role play?  Maybe!  And you don't have to go anywhere to do it, spend an evening in, but ditch those kiddos! :)  Focus on each other.

That's truly what this experiment is all about.  Find time for your partner.  Focus on each other.  With our busy lives, it's hard to find time for a massage, or a sudsy bubble bath together.  But intimacy is a vital part of any relationship, and should be a priority in your daily lives.  You choose your partner because you want to be with them, they make you feel good.  Let them know!  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  Share your fantasies.  Explore new things, together!

The KY Intimacy Experiment was an eye opener for me and my husband.  It was hard to look at how little we touched, how little we talked, how little we made time for each other.  The experiment definitely brought us closer together.  It will take work to maintain a healthy sexual relationship, but no one said it would be easy!  I look forward to many happy years, happy experiments, happy fantasies, and happy touching and feeling with my husband!  Thanks KY!


If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own

1 comment:

  1. nice. x

    p.s. I'm having a dress giveaway if you'd like to check it out.