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Friday, October 21, 2011

My KY Experiment is finished! Do you have what it takes to give it a try? #rafflecopter #GIVEAWAY

For the past 10 days, my husband and I have participated in the KY Intimacy Experiment!  It has truly been an eye opener for us!  When intimacy leaves a relationship, it's hard to forge on together.  We didn't realize how UN-imtimate we were!  With the tips and tricks we learned from the Intimacy Experiment, I think we'll keep ourselves busy, and satisfied, for years to come!

Check out our journey (don't worry, I kept it clean!):

Day 1: Make Your Bedroom an Oasis!

Day 2: Bring Back that Lovin' Feeling
Day 3: Remember what it was like in the Beginning?
Day 4: Too comfortable with each other?
Day 5: Bring out your competitive side
Day 6: The Magic Touch
Day 7: Lost your love map?
Day 8: http://asahmlookingforadeal.blogspot.com/2011/10/ky-intimacy-experiment-day-8.html
Day 9: http://asahmlookingforadeal.blogspot.com/2011/10/ky-intimacy-experiment-day-9.html
Day 10: http://asahmlookingforadeal.blogspot.com/2011/10/ky-intimacy-experiment-day-10.html

Now, do you have trouble connecting to your partner?  Do you want to spice things up a bit, or just get back that spark you used to have?

Enter to win!


(KY Intimacy Kit may differ slightly from photo)

KY is providing a 10 day KY Intimacy Experiment Kit for TWO winners who are willing to document their experiences as well.   It contains lots of fun products, as well as a step by step guide to bringing intimacy back!
(in order to win, you must be able to document your Intimacy Experiment, either by blog, or directly to a KY rep)

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Disclaimer:
KY provided me with the free product, information, and are providing the giveaway item. All opinions are my own. Please see my complete Disclosure/Acknowledgement Policy HERE.

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 10

Day 10: All together, now!

Day 10 is focused on utilizing all the tools that you've learned throughout the experiment.

Start your day off with a good, long hug and a kiss. 

Get back to being modest.  Shut the bathroom door, clip your toenails in private, being back some of that mystery you had in the beginning of your relationship.

Focus on touching each other as much as possible.  Help him get his stuff ready for work.  A foot massage while you catch up on the newest Jersey Shore.  Another hug and kiss, possibly!

Don't go all day without thinking about each other.  Send a quick email or text, or maybe a quick phone call to just say hello, or maybe share how your day is going.  Maybe make a few suggestions as to what that night might bring!

When you get back together in the evening, get right back into touching and feeling.  Help each other prepare or clean up dinner.  Sit next to each other on the couch while watching TV.  Maybe a quick neck or foot massage!

Maybe get out of the house for date night!  Role play?  Maybe!  And you don't have to go anywhere to do it, spend an evening in, but ditch those kiddos! :)  Focus on each other.

That's truly what this experiment is all about.  Find time for your partner.  Focus on each other.  With our busy lives, it's hard to find time for a massage, or a sudsy bubble bath together.  But intimacy is a vital part of any relationship, and should be a priority in your daily lives.  You choose your partner because you want to be with them, they make you feel good.  Let them know!  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  Share your fantasies.  Explore new things, together!

The KY Intimacy Experiment was an eye opener for me and my husband.  It was hard to look at how little we touched, how little we talked, how little we made time for each other.  The experiment definitely brought us closer together.  It will take work to maintain a healthy sexual relationship, but no one said it would be easy!  I look forward to many happy years, happy experiments, happy fantasies, and happy touching and feeling with my husband!  Thanks KY!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own

Thursday, October 20, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 9

Day 9: Fast and furious!

Day 9 is about getting your adrenaline pumping, together.  Find an activity that gets your heart pumping.  Trying hiking, rollerblading, horseback riding, taking on some roller coasters, or maybe even sky diving!  My hubs and I actually trekked out in the woods to where he deer hunts.  That way we could get a good workout in, he could check his deer stand, and I could see where it was that he sits for hours at a time!  We talked along the way and spent a good hour together!


Night 9 keeps your adrenaline pumping with fun activities!  If you're up for it, you can give some restraints a try, maybe some sexy hide and seek, or maybe just a blindfold!  Sensory deprivation forces you to focus on the sounds around you and the touch you are feeling.  This was a no-brainer for us.  The blindfold works incredibly!  Somehow, not being able to see makes you feel so much more comfortable with each other, as well as focusing solely on the touches and feelings!

Stay tuned for Day 10, the final day, of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 8

Day 8: Yummy in my tummy (and other places too)!

Day 8 rocks for me!  I'm the homemaker, which means I'm also the chef in our house.  My husband cooks about 3 times a year!  The exercise for today is to cook together!  Yay!  You are to choose a meal that you can cook together, something libido-boosting (oysters, chocolate, etc.).  I don't eat fish, so oysters are out for me.  But I'm all about chocolate!  We decided to make a pasta dish with some spicy meatballs (spicy foods can also get things kicking!).  And finish it off with some chocolate cake.  Then we just sat down and enjoyed each others company, while enjoying the meal we created together.  It was a nice experience to share the responsibility together, then share the spoils together.  And by the time we were finished eating, it was hard to keep that chocolate frosting on the cake where it belonged! ;)



And leave room for 'dessert'!  The Night 8 exercise is about bringing some of that flavor into the bedroom.  Starting with some gentle kisses.  Kiss in places that make you closer to your partner.  And if desired, add a little flavor!  KY sent me their Kissable Sensations product to help out with this one.  The package comes with two flavors, decadent chocolate and refreshing strawberry!  We chose what worked best for us and spent a little time 'tasting' each other!  Generally, this is enough for us.  Sex isn't always about intercourse, and to keep from getting bored by the same old routines, it's fun to experiment with alternatives!

Stay tuned for Day 9 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 7

Day 7 Exercise: Lost in your love map?

Sometimes we keep our mouths shut.  Sometimes we just want to please our partner.  But your individual needs are a key part of making a relationship last.  Knowing your unique 'love map', the memories, experiences, and fantasies that you desire, will make your love making more comfortable, as well as more productive!

The exercise for Day 7 requires you to write down what turns you on.  Make a list of the things you fantasize about, the things that never fail to get your motor running, and experiences you've had that you wish you could recreate!  This was a bit tough for me.  I knew what I wanted to put on my list, but I wasn't sure about sharing some of those thoughts with my husband.  Some I thought were embarrassing, some I thought he'd never go for, and some I thought might even make him feel uncomfortable.  But that's part of the challenge - being honest about what really works for you.  Don't be scared to share.  Your partner is more than likely ready and willing to do what it takes to please you sexually.  I know my husband made his list in about 5 minutes and it was long! rofl...


It's Night 7.  Time to share.  Yikes!  It was time to share our fantasies.  Being honest about what we like, what we don't like, and what we wish we could try.  My husband thoroughly supported everything on my list, making me feel much more comfortable about giving some of them a try!  His list was a little scary for me, but I have to admit, some of them turned me on too!  And they're things I'd never thought about before.  It was a great exercise in opening up to your partner and trying some new things you may have been too embarrassed to ask for!

I love that Night 7 is all about being brutally honest.  Something we just don't do enough!


Stay tuned for Day 8 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own

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Monday, October 17, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 6

Day 6 Exercise: The magic touch!

Day 6 is about getting touchy feely.  It doesn't always have to be sexual, just touch.  When's the last time you and your partner touched, outside of the bedroom?  Hug, hold hands, cuddle while watching TV, play footsie under the table at dinner, a quick foot or neck massage.  The goal is to make an effort to touch, in some way, at least 10 times.


Night 6 is massage night!  The exercise for tonight is to take turns giving an erotic massage!  I'm a big
fan of this step!  Massage not only feels great, but it's relaxing.  And it brings you closer together.  KY TOUCH 2-in-1 Warming Oil would be a great addition to this activity!  And if that massage leads to something more, great!  But if not, at least you got some sensory time in with your partner, as well as getting completely pampered!  My hubs is great with his hands!


Stay tuned for Day 7 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 5

Day 5 Exercise: Bring out your competitive side!

The exercise today is to find an activity that you can do together.  Something new.  Something different.  Something that can bring you closer together.  As I've said before, my husband works long hours so we don't spend a ton of time together.  Lunch together is almost non existent!  So for our activity, we decided to make time for lunch together.  I packed up a nice picnic lunch and we met at our local park for a nice, quiet, kid-free meal together.  It was really nice to catch up and to just focus on each other.  No worrying about who's not eating their food, or trying to keep an eye on kids on the playground.  Just us.  It was nice!


The exercise for Night 5, is a fun one!  They actually suggest a poker based card game.  You get a deck of cards and a stack of blank index cards.  The you split the index cards in half and in half again.  On half of the cards, you write down the most sensitive areas of your body.  On the other half, you write down a method of touch that makes you weak.  Then you just play poker.  Winner gets to choose a card from each pile!  It was fun!  I think you could really change up the game and put whatever you'd like on the cards.  A chore that you want your partner to help with, a request for a foot rub or massage, anything that can bring you closer together!

Stay tuned for Day 6 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 4

Day 4 Exercise: Too comfortable with each other?

Do you leave the bathroom door open?  Leave dirty socks on the floor?  Clip your toenails in front of your partner?  Maybe wax your mustache in front of them too?


We are all guilty of getting comfortable in a relationship.  Maybe too comfortable!  Day 4 challenge was to make lists of some of the things that we do in front of our partner, that we would've NEVER done in the first weeks or months of our relationship.  It was a bit funny to think of how I'd never eat in front of him because I didn't want him to think I was a pig.  I'd starve all night long, saying I ate beforehand.  Then I'd go home at the end of the night a stuff my face!  Oh the crazy things we do because we think someone will like us more! 

Night 4 of the experiment was SUPER tough!  Sometimes we get a bit too comfortable in our relationship.  Other times, we may get more skittish.  For instance, since we've met, I've had two kids.  I smoked, quit smoking, smoked, quit smoking, gained weight, lost weight, gained weight, lost weight - you get the picture.  My body isn't what it once was.  And I get self conscious about it, as do a lot of couples as they get older.  Night 4 was about getting comfortable in your own skin.  Literally!  It was babysitter time again, this time at a neighbors.  The challenge was to strip down.  Yep, all the way down.  Then go about our business together, without clothes!  We ate dinner.  We folded a load of laundry.  And then we sat down for a little TV.


Once you get past being self conscious, you get more and more comfortable just being together that way.  And I'm telling you, it is hard to get anything done when you are in your birthday suit!  We were easily distracted (if you know what I mean!)!


This exercise gets 4 thumbs up from us!  Get naked people!  It's for a good cause!

Stay tuned for Day 5 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Friday, October 14, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 3

Day 3 Exercise: Remember what it was like in the beginning!

Day 3 of the experiment is about getting back to the root of what brought you together in the first place.  We were to make lists of what attracted us to each other in the beginning.  What was it that made things so hot and steamy.  And where did that go?

Making the lists was a bit tough.  And hearing his list was even tougher.  It's hard to hear the things that used to attract you to each other, qualities that maybe you don't have after 16 years.  We found that instead of saying "I used to love this about you, but not anymore.", we would say, "I used to love this about you, but now I love this even more!"  It was a much better experience that way.

The exercise for Night 3 was a little intimidating.  We were to meet for the first time.  Yep, you read right.  We headed out to a local restaurant/bar separately.  We had even dressed in clothes that we considered our "fishing for dates" outfits!  Dressing up made me feel more confident and sexier than I would've in my jeans and sweatshirt I would've worn if we had just gone out for dinner! :)


We sat separately - me at a table, him at the bar.  Then we pretended to see each other for the first time and decide how we would "pick each other up" as if we didn't know each other.  It was very scary for me!  I met my husband when I was 15, so I don't have experience picking up guys in bars!  We met in a grocery store!  Same goes for him, so it was a little awkward, even though we knew we were pretending.  He came over to my table and asked if he could sit down.  He bought me a drink.  We chit-chatted a bit, and then ended up having dinner together.  It was fun to pretend not to know each other.  To hear us talk about ourselves like we don't know the answers to the questions already.  My husband was on the ball that night, and I can say for certain that even if I didn't know him, he still could've picked me up!  He was such a charmer!  I won't say where things went from there, but I'll just say that the babysitter had to stay a little bit later than expected! ;)

I fully approve this challenge!  It was a great way to see what it was that attracted you to each other in the first place.  And it was fun to pretend it was the first time all over again!

Stay tuned for Day 4 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Thursday, October 13, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 2

Day 2 Exercise: Bring back that lovin' feeling!

Day 2 is all about touch.  And not just in the bedroom.  Couples who are comfortable with each other, tend not to feel a need to be physically close to their partner, unless some shagging is involved.  Truth is, as humans we crave that touch.  That feeling of intimacy.  That feeling of security.  And without it, it's tough to switch those feelings on for a half hour in the bedroom.

KY calls this "transferable desire".  The act of touch, or just being close, can bring feelings of comfort, as well as sensuality.  Hubs and I decided to hold hands when we went for a walk after dinner.  It was strange at first, since we hadn't held hands in quite a few years.  But it was nice to just feel his skin next to mind, without a pressure for "sexy results" as Homer Simpson would put it! :o


We also sat next to each other on the couch, watching the lastest X Factor (love that Simon!), which is something we NEVER do!  We have our spots in the living room.  Me on the recliner, him laying on the couch.  That's our routine.  That's what we're comfortable with.  That's what comes with 16 years of watching TV together!  But it felt good to have him close to me.  We didn't have to touch.  Just being that close brought feelings of happiness and, I'll admit, a little sexual spark too!

The exercise for Night #2, was to focus on intimacy, physically and emotionally.  One challenge was to hug.  For a long time!  Hug until it doesn't feel uncomfortable anymore.  And once comfortable in each others arms, focus on eye contact.  Maintain eye contact throughout your "bedtime" activities, forcing yourself to be fully in the moment.   Focusing fully on my partner made me feel uncomfortable and awkward at first, but truly, in the end, I felt a much closer to him.  And I enjoyed the look in his eyes, staring right back into mine.  It was very romantic!

Stay tuned for Day 3 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!

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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment - Day 1

So, if you didn't see my last post, my husband and I began the KY Intimacy Experiment!  It's Day 1 and we are just getting started!

Day 1 Exercise: Make your bedroom and oasis!

The first day of the experiment was to focus on the bedroom.  Piles of laundry on the floor?  Kids toys?  Pets in the bed?  Book or remote within reach?  All of these things are distractions.  It's hard to get in the mood when you are looking at a pile of laundry that needs to be folded and put away.  Or if you have to shoo Rover off the bed to make room.  KY suggests clearing your bedroom of anything that doesn't revolve around sleep and/or passion.  Get the TV outta there, or at least hide the remote!  Don't worry, Conan will still be on the DVR for later... :) Ellen's new book you can't wait to read?  Shelf it for a bit.  It'll be there even when your relationship is rockin!

I hate to admit that this was my bedroom before:


Yikes!  Notice the laundry.  The books.  Remotes.  Empty water bottles that needed to be tossed.  My bedroom was more  like a dumping ground, than an oasis.  All the things that KY experts say puts a damper on your mood.

And here's my bedroom after:


I cleared everything out, cleaned it up, and added a few touches to spice it up.  A massage candle by the bedside.  Fresh, clean sheets and blankets.  No laundry.  No toys.  No clutter.  Just a clean, calm space that I can fully relax in!  KY also suggest painting or decorating in cool, calming colors like blues and greens.  But also adding touches of red and pink to get your senses awake.  I don't have a budget to spend on extras like that, but I did pull out my red undies for the occasion!

I'm not going to go into details (trying to keep it clean), but I must say that when your environment is clear of clutter, your brain can be clear of clutter too.  Hubs and I were able to chill and relax, and not worry about the stuff that needed to be done!  Our minds were fully focused on the task at hand! :)

Great ideas KY

Stay tuned for Day 2 of the KY Intimacy Experiment!


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If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.

Wordless Wednesday - Just chillin'

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Scare up some Halloween fun at EdenFantasys!

You may think that EdenFantasys isn't for you. It's an adult sex shop and you aren't into all that crazy stuff, right? But they truly have something for everyone! Take a look at their Sensual Love section. It's filled with romantic products, gift ideas, and mood enhancing goodies!

But are you on the lookout for that perfect sexy Halloween costume?  Or something to enhance a little role playing?   EdenFantasys carries some very cute, and afforadable Halloween (or anytime!) costumes like the Fantasy Cop, $39.99.


And maybe the Reindeer Games Dress, $49.99.


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Gifts for Him
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Luxury Toys
Kinky Gifts


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Monday, October 10, 2011

KY Intimacy Experiment

Alright, people. I don't generally do this. I'm not one to talk about (or put into many, many words and photos on my public blog!) my sex life.  So don't worry, I'll keep it clean!

My husband and I have been together for 16 years, married for 10.  It's been a long road together.  2 kids, 4 houses, 2 businesses, jobs, not-so-much jobs, bills, bills, bills...

You get the drift.  Not only time, but lots of stress and distraction, can take a toll on the healthiest of relationships.  Ours was not an exception!  My husband and I run a small business.  I do the bookkeeping, he does the labor.  Luckily for me, the job allows me to be at home with my kids, taking care of the house and all of our finances, while my husband is out busting his butt every day to make some hard earned dough.  Unfortunately, that means some long hours for him.  He generally leaves the house around 7am, returning home around 8pm.  Then he's usually beat.  He eats dinner, showers, and hits the hay.  This doesn't leave a lot of time for bedtime shenanigans!

KY to the rescue!

I was contacted by KY to give the KY Intimacy Experiment a try.  It's a pretty intense course to get couples back into a healthy sexual relationship by trying new things, learning more about what your partner likes and dislikes, and just plain spending some quality time focusing on each other!  And let's be honest, with kids, a house, jobs, dishes, laundry, bills and all the other fun stuff that goes along with real life, focusing on your relationship, versus who's on Conan tonight, can be tough.

It's time to unplug the laptop, shut off the phone, and put down the remote!

We are starting the experiment tomorrow (I have a headache tonight! LOL) and I'll keep you posted as to our progress!

If you'd like to give the experiment a try for yourself, you can download the PDF of the program for FREE right here!  Or check out the KY Facebook Page for more info.

I was sent the Intimacy Experiment Kit from KY free of charge.  I am not being compensated for my time.  All opinions are my own.